Menopause and perimenopause: symptoms, diagnosis and support
The menopause is a natural stage of life, but its symptoms can be confusing and, for many women, genuinely disruptive. This guide explains what the menopause and perimenopause are, how they are diagnosed, and the support available — so you can approach this stage feeling informed rather than in the dark.
What are the menopause and perimenopause?
The menopause is the point at which your ovaries stop releasing eggs and your periods stop for good. It is diagnosed once you have gone 12 consecutive months without a period. It is a natural part of ageing rather than an illness, though the hormonal changes behind it can affect how you feel for several years.
Perimenopause is the transitional phase leading up to the menopause, when levels of oestrogen and other hormones begin to fluctuate. Periods often become irregular and menopausal symptoms can appear while you are still having them. This phase may last a few months or several years before your periods stop completely.
When the menopause happens before the age of 45 it is described as early menopause, and before 40 as premature ovarian insufficiency (POI). If you would like to understand what is happening and what your options are, our broader gynaecology services include consultations covering the menopause and related women's health concerns.
Common symptoms of the menopause and perimenopause
Symptoms vary widely from one person to the next, and no two experiences are the same. They are driven mainly by falling oestrogen levels and can affect your body, mood and sleep. Many women notice changes to their periods first, followed by other symptoms over time.
On average, symptoms last around 7 to 9 years, although for some women they continue for longer and for others they are relatively brief. Vaginal dryness and urinary symptoms in particular may persist, or worsen, without treatment.
- Irregular periods, or bleeding that is heavier or lighter than usual
- Problems with memory and concentration, often called 'brain fog'
- Recurrent urinary symptoms, such as needing to pass urine more often
- Hot flushes and night sweats
- Low mood, anxiety or irritability
- Difficulty sleeping and fatigue
- Vaginal dryness and discomfort during sex
- Reduced sex drive
- Joint aches and stiffness
When does the menopause usually happen?
In the UK, the menopause usually happens between the ages of 45 and 55, with the average age being around 51. Perimenopause commonly begins in your mid-forties, though it can start earlier or later.
Around 1 in 100 women reach the menopause before the age of 40, known as premature ovarian insufficiency. This can occur naturally, or follow surgery to remove the ovaries, cancer treatment such as chemotherapy, or certain medical conditions. Early and premature menopause deserve particular attention, because the longer-term effects of low oestrogen on bone and heart health are relevant over more years of life.
How is the menopause diagnosed?
For most women, the menopause is diagnosed from your symptoms and your age rather than from a blood test. NICE guidance (NG23) advises that if you are over 45 with typical symptoms, such as irregular periods and hot flushes, a diagnosis can usually be made without any testing.
Blood tests measuring follicle-stimulating hormone (FSH) may be considered if you are aged 40 to 45 with menopausal symptoms, or under 40 where premature menopause is suspected. A women's health GP appointment is often the most straightforward place to start, and can help rule out other causes of similar symptoms, such as thyroid problems, before deciding on next steps.
Treatment and support: HRT and non-hormonal options
There is no need to simply put up with symptoms that affect your quality of life. A range of treatments can help, and the right approach depends on your symptoms, medical history and personal preferences. This information is intended for general educational purposes only and does not constitute medical advice — please consult a qualified healthcare professional for guidance specific to your circumstances.
Hormone replacement therapy (HRT) replaces the oestrogen your body no longer makes and is the most effective treatment for hot flushes, night sweats and many other symptoms. It is available as tablets, skin patches, gels or sprays, and women who still have a womb also take a progestogen to protect its lining. Low-dose vaginal oestrogen can be used specifically for vaginal dryness and urinary symptoms.
Non-hormonal options include lifestyle measures such as regular exercise, reducing caffeine and alcohol, and cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT), which has evidence for easing hot flushes and low mood. Certain non-hormonal medicines may also be considered for women who cannot take HRT or prefer not to. Our sister clinic runs a dedicated menopause service where all of these options can be discussed in detail and tailored to you.
When to seek help
It is worth seeking advice if menopausal symptoms are affecting your daily life, relationships or work, or if you are simply unsure whether what you are experiencing is the menopause. You should also seek advice if your periods stop before the age of 45, or if you have any bleeding after the menopause — postmenopausal bleeding always needs to be checked by a clinician.
You can start with your GP, or arrange to see a specialist female gynaecologist if you would prefer a more in-depth women's health consultation. Support is available at every stage, and effective treatment can make a real difference to how you feel.
Your questions answered
What is the average age of the menopause in the UK?
In the UK, the menopause usually occurs between the ages of 45 and 55, and the average age is around 51. The perimenopause, when symptoms often begin, commonly starts in your mid-forties.
What are the first signs of perimenopause?
For many women, the first sign is a change in periods — they may become irregular, heavier or lighter. Hot flushes, night sweats, disturbed sleep, low mood and difficulty concentrating are also common early symptoms.
How long do menopause symptoms last?
Symptoms usually last around 7 to 9 years, and sometimes longer, though this varies a great deal. Some women have symptoms only briefly, while others experience them for a decade or more — particularly vaginal and urinary symptoms, which can persist without treatment.
Do I need a blood test to diagnose the menopause?
Usually not. Under NICE NG23 guidance, if you are over 45 with typical symptoms, the menopause is diagnosed clinically without a blood test. FSH blood tests may be considered if you are aged 40 to 45 with symptoms, or under 40 where premature menopause is suspected.
Is HRT safe?
For most women who begin it under the age of 60, or within 10 years of the menopause, the benefits of HRT generally outweigh the risks — but this is an individual decision. The type, dose and delivery method all affect the balance of risks and benefits, so it is best discussed with a clinician who knows your medical history.
What non-hormonal options are available for menopause symptoms?
Options include lifestyle changes, cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT), and certain non-hormonal prescription medicines. These can help women who cannot take HRT or who prefer not to, and can be used alongside other measures such as regular exercise and reducing caffeine and alcohol.
What is premature menopause?
Premature menopause, or premature ovarian insufficiency, is when the menopause happens before the age of 40 and affects around 1 in 100 women. It can occur naturally or follow surgery or cancer treatment, and usually warrants specialist input because of the longer-term effects of low oestrogen.
Can I still get pregnant during perimenopause?
Yes. Although fertility declines, you can still conceive until you have gone a full 12 months without a period. Contraception is generally recommended for one year after your last period if you are over 50, and for two years if you are under 50.
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Sources & clinical references
The figures and clinical statements on this page are drawn from the sources below. Guidance evolves — always discuss your individual circumstances with a clinician.
- NICE (National Institute for Health and Care Excellence)Menopause: identification and management (NG23)2024
- NHSMenopause2026
- NHSMenopause – Symptoms2026
- NHSHormone replacement therapy (HRT)2023
- Women's Health Concern (patient arm of the British Menopause Society)Menopause factsheet2026